Creating your own in-home retreat

Are you feeling drained from the holidays and looking for a way to refresh without the heavy cost of going away? Have you fallen out of the habit of good self-care? Is your day-to-day routine getting in the way of doing the things you are passionate about?

As a society we go to great lengths to stay connected. We put our head phones on when we go for a walk, pull out our phone or lap top when we go to the coffee shop, check our phones constantly to stay instantly connected and informed. Seeking and being comfortable with yourself can have incredible benefits on your health and well-being.

Quiet time allows us the opportunity to check-in with ourselves, to revisit the things that light a fire in our belly, and to see how our daily lives are stacking up to our passions.

Creating a space in your home where you can retreat from the responsibilities that surround you, where you can unplug and tap into your quiet self is key to creating an opportunity for self-exploration, self-care and essential happiness.

The benefits of spending some time alone are huge -
- it’s an opportunity to recharge mentally and physically. Constantly being 'on' doesn’t give your brain a chance to rest and replenish itself
- it eliminates distractions, giving you time to think and reflect
- it provides you with the precious time to do what really makes you happy
- helps to make engaging with others even more valued and enjoyable
- helps you discover yourself and find your own voice

Decide on things you want to do during your retreat - which can be daily, weekly or monthly -
- write and reflect in your journal
- paint, draw and embrace your creative side
- sip tea free from any texts, books, journals, anything
- listen to an inspirational podcast
- meditate
- practice yoga
- read

Create Boundaries -
While in your space, create a set of boundaries to help you tune into you and tune out the rest of the world. Try some of these ideas -
 - no social media for any reason
 - create an auto-responder for your email inbox so you won't check it
 - don't access any app on your phone except Alarm, Weather, Maps, Podcast
 - no streaming TV shows

HOW TO CREATE A PERSONAL RETREAT AT HOME
Choose a space
Choose a room that feels comfortable and is away from the center of the activity in your home. Choose a space that lends itself to being quiet and more private. An extra bedroom, sun room, converted garage space or she shed are all good choices for a home retreat. As you take a look around, notice where you would have enough room to create a space that isn’t cramped or limiting in how you would use it. Is there room for a chair, ottoman, small table and yoga mat?

Edit and de-clutter your space
Before using your space, take some time to really de-clutter. Edit your belongings, keeping only the bare basics you will need to feel physically comfortable and move out the rest. It is hard to be calm when you’re surrounded by clutter and excess stuff.

Set up the space
What you need in your personal space will depend on how you will use the space. Everyone's needs will be different, just make sure it is somewhere you will always be happy in. Here are some ideas to keep in mind -
- meditation pillow
- art supplies, like an easel and paint brushes
- variety of journals and pens
- yoga mat
- music source - cd player, spotify, etc.
- comfy chair, ottoman and cozy throw

Make it visually appealing
While you want your room edited, your retreat space must feel inviting. Think about the things that inspire you. It might be -
- fresh flowers
- plants
- calming or lively colors (depending on your aesthetics)
- thoughtful or inspiring art (depending on your aesthetics)
- photographs

Create Ambiance
Adding background music of white noise can be calming and can help drown out the outside world. Some prefer sounds of nature to bring the spirit of nature closer to them. Of course meditative music can be very relaxing. My preference is pure silence - it allows me to listen to myself more closely. If you're not sure what helps you, try different types until you find what's right for you!

Next, consider adding in soothing ambiance with fragrance. Research shows that aromatherapy may help with depression, difficulty sleeping, anxiety and fatigue.

Light it up - the right way
Make sure the lighting fits the space. The lighting will depend on how you’re using the space. Natural light can help create your feeling of serenity. Bright light is more conducive to writing and reading. You want to go with dim, soft lighting if you’re practicing yoga or meditating.

Takeaways
- Choose a space that is quiet and allows you to relax. Don't worry if you can't dedicate an entire room to your cause. A corner or alcove can work if you use screens or some other way to define the area as your retreat
- Make sure everyone in your home knows this is your quiet space. Place a note on the door to let your family know this is your time
- Be ok with taking time to be by yourself

Eventually, you will find that your mind will automatically start to relax as soon as you enter your personal retreat.

Until next time,

la chasse au bonheur

{the hunt for happiness}

2018 housing forecast

Matthew Gardner, Chief Economist for Windermere Real Estate, specializes in residential market analysis, commercial/industrial market analysis, financial analysis, and land use and regional economics. With 30+ years of professional experience, Matthew's previous forecasts have been fairly spot on!

Here is Matthew's forecast for our 2018 housing market. 

If you would like more information on our local housing market, including information on our local economy, migration, growth and planning, let me know. Keeping informed on our market is what I do!

Here's to a healthy market in 2018!

Until next time, 

la chasse au bonheur

DARCY LABELLE

Broker | Windermere Real Estate Co

206/915-0916

darcy@windermere.com

Be Prepared for Winter Weather

Entertaining made easy, even for a busy Santa

It's here - the most wonderful time of the year. But if you are anything like me you are committed three times over this holiday season with barely the time to recover before doing it all over the following day.

My children have come to expect a house decked out for the holidays. And really, I have to agree, it just isn't the holiday season without cedar boughs, a beribboned wreath, Eggnog and tins of Butter Tarts. 

We kick off the holiday season with my annual Santa's Breakfast. This festive brunch has expanded from a fun way to say "thanks" to clients to a day celebrating with friends and family as well. It looks like a big undertaking but "shhhhhh" it's really easy.  Over the years, I've learned some tricks that make event giving as easy as gift giving. 

JACKSON ENJOYING SANTA

and BREAKFAST 

 and CHECKING THE LIST

RENT THE PARTY PLACE: I love house parties more than anyone but when it comes to hosting over 100 people I relax and rent the local community center. Most rental halls have the tables, chairs, a small kitchen and help. Their fees are nominal and I love that I am supporting the local parks department. The fact that I don't need to worry about cleaning my house and doing those honey-do jobs weeks leading up to the party is just a bonus! 

PICK YOUR COLORS AND DON'T DEVIATE: I pick my color theme and run with it, really, I don't look back. I use those colors in my invitations, rented linens, on custom labels, everywhere I can. This gives the event a consistent look and pulls it together. I go for big impact with colorful linens and simple centerpieces. This saves time setting up the day of the event. 

I purchase the poinsettias from a local charity fundraiser

KEEP THE MENU SIMPLE: I start baking a month in advance which leaves lots of time the week before. I have found some great muffin, quick bread, coffee cake and cookie recipes that freeze beautifully. When I bake, I make extra for Christmas gift giving and Christmas morning. I put my husband to work flipping pancakes and somehow, by the grace of god, it all works. 

INVEST IN SERVING PIECES: My parents are too good to me. Over the years they have given me serving pieces that make entertaining a crowd easy. The 36 cup Faberware coffee urn (on sale right now at Macy's) is a must as is a functional glass dispenser - perfect for OJ, mixed drinks or flavored water.

MUSIC: I keep a play list labeled on my iPod for the event. Throughout the year I add songs so all I have to do is hit 'play' the day of the event. 

REMEMBER THE SPECIAL TOUCHES: People love special touches and guests will remember the little extras. Personalizing events for your guests makes everything so much more special and really, isn't that why we are doing all this?

Santa is ready to listen

FINALLY, I DON'T LET MY TINSEL GET TANGLED IN A BUNCH (at least I try): I have found there are just too many things that can go wrong, so I prepare for success but if the hot cocoa burns or the pancakes stick I let it slide. It is a party after all.

Here are a few extra photos from this year's Santa's Breakfast taken by Mischelle, Jackson's mom! Thank you Mischelle, I always forget to take photos.   

 

A hungry crew waiting for pancakes!

My husband is such a good sport

 

Wishing you Joyeux Noel!

la chasse au bonheur

What to Bring?

The first question you ask when invited to dinner is “what can I bring?”, with the usual response being “just yourself”. Well, we all know that’s not going to work, we just have to bring something.  Whatever it is, however, the host should not feel compelled to serve it that evening.

Depending on your hosts' preference, this tasty snack can be put out right away, or saved for later. Bonus!

Salted Pecans - serves 24
4 ounces (1/2 cup) salted butter
6 cups pecan halves
2 teaspoons table salt

Preheat oven to 250F. Place butter in a rimmed baking sheet and place in oven until melted. Add pecans to the pan, and toss with melted butter. Sprinkle with 1 tsp salt; toss to coat. Repeat. Bake until deeply toasted, about 1 hour, stirring every 20 minutes. Transfer to a pan lined with paper towels to cool completely. Store in airtight container for up to 3 weeks.

I like to wrap this gift in vintage bowls that I've picked up from vintage shops over the year using cello, a festive ribbon and topped with a serving spoon.

Mason jars and boxes work just as well. The key is to use what is handy and keep it easy. Making a few of these ahead of time, reduces a lot of stress during the busy holiday season!

Until next time,

la chasse au bonheur

Host a Harvest Gathering

Fall can be busy and finding time to entertain a challenge! That’s why I love hosting a Harvest Gathering. The star of this event is our Washington State Apple!

For me, the quintessential fall staple is apple cider, and whether you’re making it at home or purchasing ready made, it’s the perfect beverage to celebrate our crisp autumn days. I keep my event simple - I serve hot cider which I keep warm in my big urn, and cold pressed cider in my lemonade-style dispenser. I add a platter of candied apples, bowls (or bushels) of assorted fresh apples, caramel corn and spiced nuts. I don’t spend a lot of time on decor - I toss vintage throws over assorted chairs and tables, add lanterns and keep the details rustic and natural! 

Here's a fool proof recipe for apple cider with mulling spices (I usually triple this recipe) - In a large saucepan, heat 4 cups apple cider. Add 2 tbls. brown sugar, 5 cloves, 1 cinnamon stick, 1/4 tsp. nutmeg (freshly ground is ideal, but from a spice jar works just fine), 1/4 tsp. cardamom, zest from one orange to the cider. Simmer on low heat or transfer to urn. Be sure to strain before serving and watch the beverage temperature, this beverage can get very hot. Enjoy!

Until next time,

la chasse au bonheur

Seeing the beauty

My Nº 1 quote when advising a seller on listing their home - 

"How you live in a home

is not how you sell a home"

There's no question that we all accumulate stuff - stuff we need, stuff we don't need, stuff we love, stuff handed down to us, given to us, or the 'just because' stuff. And, unless you have a big home, most of that stuff is either packed in a closet, (and I mean packed), or on display, making it difficult for anyone, including you, to enjoy the sweet spaces of your home.

Living with lots of personal 'items' is one thing, but having it all around when you go to sell is another. The challenge this stuff causes is that potential buyers can't look past your personal items to 1) see the house and 2) visualize how their life, their stuff, will look in it. 

That's why decluttering, with a healthy rinse and repeat, again and again, is critical to a successful sale. 

There are apps that walk you through a year of decluttering, there are trained (and untrained) personal organizers readily available to work with you in your home, and a great selection of organizing/decluttering self-help books, and almost every home and lifestyle magazine offers a thorough read on the subject. Implementing any one of these tools will go a long way to accomplishing the job.

Another issue I constantly see is the lack of updates and refresh of a person's interiors. It's been said that personal style and aesthetics change every seven years. There was a time when a home owner purchased a living room set and that was it. I'm not sure that isn't how we should be approaching our home purchases (for the long haul), but I do know that the mauve's of the eighties don't work in today's world of interiors, just as the Tuscan warmth of the 90's don't. Bringing your home current with a fresh coat of paint is just a basic job any seller should decide to take on, and quite frankly, a must!

My final tip for getting your home ready for market is to edit. It is one thing to declutter (critical step), and to freshen up your interiors with a coat (or two) of paint, etc., but you must also edit what you leave in your home. That includes your furniture, art and accessories. By doing so, the bones of your home are the star, not your personal belongings. Let a potential buyer see the rooms - the floors, windows, walls and flow! Don't get me wrong, you want your home to feel warm and inviting, but it doesn't take much to accomplish this - a few key pieces of art, furniture and accessories is all it takes.  Let the rooms be on display, not you!

Now comes my disclaimer - I am a known collector - I have a passion for anything French or English, I enjoy textiles with lots of pattern and love an eclectic  mix of wallpaper. I prefer a more curated look to interiors and enjoy living with items that make me happy, and there are a lot of those! When I renovated my kitchen, I did so in a way that goes against traditional real estate speak. Which takes me right back to my opening quote -

"How you live in a home

is not how you sell a home"

When it's time to sell my home, I will be sure to declutter, freshen and edit my interiors so the bones of this sweet Tudor shine. 

To better showcase my thoughts on this subject, take a gander at these before and after photos taken from a recent listing of mine in Seattle -

I recommended an updated paint palette throughout the home to
compliment the light filled spaces and charming cottage feel.  

Working with, not against, the flow of the rooms, I changed
the furniture layout so as to invite you into the home.

I love wallpaper, but it must stay fresh and current! Removing
big pieces of furniture and changing the layout went a long
way to showcase just how big this bedroom is!

I recommended the sellers declutter, paint the dated cabinets and remove
the wallpaper to deliver a simply charming and completely modern kitchen!

Don't forget the outside. It doesn't take much - in this case we did
some clean-up, added a few plants and a place to sit and enjoy!
 

Until next time,

la chasse au bonheur